okay so there are plenty of beautiful bras for the boobalicious girls, every department store I go in has a DD+ section. What I wanna know is wheres the stuff for the petit girls that have less jiggling about up there? Do we only deserve training bras with teddy bears and hearts on?

No wonder girls like me get so caught up on being small and being told they aren’t a ‘real women’ when the majority of bras in small sizes are either stuffed with padding, or designed for pubescent teens. I must add I have heard that comment from a few men now, and what id like to ask you is… how big is your penis? Can you imagine if that was out for show 24/7 and all us women could see? Better yet the men, constant competition and scrutinising. I bet you wouldn’t be as half judgemental as you are now. (This isn’t aimed at every man) I appreciate everyone has their preferences, but saying someone isn’t a ‘real woman’, because of their proportions is in no way logical. Oh by the way your fascination with breasts stems from your mothers breast that are large and full of milk. Not porn stars. The shape and curves of your body doesn’t make you a ‘real woman’ its your strength, your ambition, your allure and femininity. 

This isn’t a writing about men being shallow, grunting cave men; this is about how a whole bunch of women have been left out and forgotten. I realise that bras are designed for support but frankly I need that support, that support that I look sexy and can go about my daily tasks feeling comfortable and confident. Maybe its not the conventional way to wear a bra but without one I don’t feel as feminine as I could.

So to the lingerie shops and department stores please stock some sexy stuff for the smaller girls, chuck some lace around, some pretty patterns, but no teddy bears please or boring t-shirt bras I am done with that thanks.

…and yeah I am going to end with a Beyonce quote because what would life be without her ‘The most alluring thing a woman can have is confidence’.

It’s really hard feeling this way when you know there is nothing you can do about it.

I am aware of the fact my singleness is due to my very picky ways, but I just don’t understand how people hop from one relationship to another settling for medico people that they aren’t really happy with and don’t care about. I am not naive enough to think that I am going to find the love of my life anytime soon but I’d rather be single than be with someone that doesn’t excite me in anyway. Can you really just make yourself love someone?

Last night was strange I think everything met at a head not great. Hopefully thats over.